xNuminousx
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If it doesn't involve you then why include yourself?Except what you're saying affects the entirety of the staff team because of the choices of three people, that's what you need to remember.
If it doesn't involve you then why include yourself?Except what you're saying affects the entirety of the staff team because of the choices of three people, that's what you need to remember.
Its called being a team and sticking out for each other.If it doesn't involve you then why include yourself?
So you're going to take the blame and then get upset at me because you took the blame? Yea okay.Its called being a team and sticking out for each other.
I'm just pointing out the answer to your question. We are a team, we work together, we support each other, I am telling you why we involve ourselves in each others problems.So you're going to take the blame and then get upset at me because you took the blame? Yea okay.
And I'm asking, if this is the case, why get upset when apparently it wasn't I that involved you? People have gotten upset at me for arguing with them about decisions they have no authority to make, so why get involved with that? Because you're a team? Okay then why get upset with me when you don't have authority? I dont know guys. Things seem very twisted and all messed up more than ever now...I'm just pointing out the answer to your question. We are a team, we work together, we support each other, I am telling you why we involve ourselves in each others problems.
I'm just pointing out the answer to your question. We are a team, we work together, we support each other, I am telling you why we involve ourselves in each others problems.
I generally get upset when I see people criticising others negatively. I would expect anyone else to do the same?And I'm asking, if this is the case, why get upset when apparently it wasn't I that involved you? People have gotten upset at me for arguing with them about decisions they have no authority, so why get involved with that? Because you're a team? Okay then why get upset with me when you don't have authority? I dont know guys. Things seem very twisted and all messed up more than ever now...
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I guess it's situational. But the question was, to put it in simpler terms to make this easier: why get upset with ME for something that wasn't my fault?I generally get upset when I see people criticising others negatively. I would expect anyone else to do the same?
You are the proveyor of negative criticism, I believeI guess it's situational. But the question was, to put it in simpler terms to make this easier: why get upset with ME for something that wasn't my fault?
/.- Nevermind I'll ask someone else. I already got that I'm a terrible person but thanks.You are the proveyor of negative criticism, I believe
Didn't say you were terrible, I just said that in this situation your criticism is being viewed negatively as you may have already known./.- Nevermind I'll ask someone else. I already got that I'm a terrible person but thanks.
Yes and again your answer wasn't a correct answer.Didn't say you were terrible, I just said that in this situation your criticism is being viewed negatively as you may have already known.
Now I see where you are coming from, but in your scenario the way you are being viewed is that, while you are trying to patch up your brother, you are also reprimanding him for something he necesarrily could not control. This problem you believe to exist is not at all 1 sided. There is a truth to both sides arguments.Yes and again your answer wasn't a correct answer.
For an example this is what you just said:
If my little brother brakes a glass cup, I get blamed for it an punished just because I witnessed it. Even though I patched up his scratches and healed him of damage.
That example is relevant to what you said. Just because the criticism I offer isn't what you want to hear, you get mad at me for things that aren't even my fault... Lol
Which was my original point, why get involved? You responded with "because we're a team" I get that you're a team and want to protect each other, which is noble. But to then turn around and blame me for your involvement? Most of my responses are replies to what's already been said. So, because of this, how could I be at fault for their involvement? You'd basically be blaming me for your own actions. The scenario I said used a 3rd person (the mom/dad that punished) where as this actually requires only 2 people.he necesarrily could not control.
And if this is referring to me accusing someone of something they had no control over, this is false. I was simply holding the ORIGINAL person at question accountable until someone else got involved. For example, originally I was just talking to Omni until more people started getting involved. Then I started to respond to what they had to say and why it was ludicrous.you are also reprimanding him
Ok your missing my point here, I'm not blaming you for my involvement? I involved myself based upon my own will and I will deal with the consequences of it.Which was my original point, why get involved? You responded with "because we're a team" I get that you're a team and want to protect each other, which is noble. But to then turn around and blame me for your involvement? Most of my responses are replies to what's already been said. So, because of this, how could I be at fault for their involvement? You'd basically be blaming me for your own actions. The scenario I said used a 3rd person (the mom/dad that punished) where as this actually requires only 2 people.
So a better example would be:
My OLDER brother breaks a glass cup. Because I was closest to him he gets upset with me (yelling and punching) saying "Why would break this cup? You're in so much trouble!" Even though I hadn't even touched the cup, looked at the cup or had anything to do with the cup.
And I wasn't talking about you. You aren't the one I was thinking at all with any of these silly scenarios or anything. I was trying to get you to see the point.Ok your missing my point here, I'm not blaming you for my involvement? I involved myself based upon my own will and I will deal with the consequences of it.
Oh, then excuse me for being a burden........ XD I honestly thought this was about why I personally interefered XDAnd I wasn't talking about you. You aren't the one I was thinking at all with any of these silly scenarios or anything. I was trying to get you to see the point.
You weren't burden. And this wasn't about you. But it's fine, if someone else's didn't understand than now they do.Oh, then excuse me for being a burden........ XD I honestly thought this was about why I personally interefered XD
You did involve us. You involved the entire team when you started giving the complete opposite of constructive criticism. You knit pick everything we say, everything we do. Do you know how annoying that is? The fact that you always so negatively judge us?And I'm asking, if this is the case, why get upset when apparently it wasn't I that involved you? People have gotten upset at me for arguing with them about decisions they have no authority to make, so why get involved with that? Because you're a team? Okay then why get upset with me when you don't have authority? I dont know guys. Things seem very twisted and all messed up more than ever now...